We often as human beings take the feelings we have for our spouses and put them on a shelf, as we get busy with everyday life. Only on rare occasions do we recall those feelings and show our love for that special person. This is one of the main causes of infidelity in a marriage (complacency). Everyone wants to feel loved and appreciated, yet at times we forget that it is our job as well to show love and appreciation. While this is no excuse for infidelity, it makes it easier for a person to justify an affair when they feel they are being taken for granted.
Day after day families grow farther and farther apart and even begin to despise the person they are married to or in a relationship with, because they lack the passion they once had, and desire passion more than to remain true to their vows. This is why in more than 72% of all marriages at least one of the two partners is in or has had an affair. Marriage cannot successfully be built on deception, thus truth in a healthy marriage is an essential commodity.
Some of us knows that our husband or wife is cheating on us, but we ignore the situation and remain in bondage because of financial or material benefits. Some men stay in marriage because of children which might not be theirs. Whether you want to make your marriage work or believe it is beyond repair, you still need to know the truth for your own peace of mind.
Many marriages can still succeed even after an affair, if both parties are willing to make it work. However, many people, once getting involved in an extramarital affair will not put it to a final end until they are confronted by their partner. This is not because they don’t truly still love their partner or feel guilty for betraying them but simply because they feel they need more affection than what their spouse is offering.
As most humans have many similar traits, no one wants to feel like they are uninformed, especially in a relationship. However, throwing around unsubstantiated claims is not something we want to do. Thus we need proof that we are not imagining things. Wrongfully accusing one’s spouse of having an affair can often times do as much damage as actually having an affair. Our team of private investigators have the experience necessary to be able to objectively look at a potentially failing marriage and provide proof of whether or not it is actually being caused by a cheating spouse.
We also offer Paternity Test/DNA test services. A recent survey shows that 3 out of 10 children
are not fathered by their biological father in Nigeria. ( http://www.bellanaija.com/2012/10/02/dna-expert-gives-shocking-statistics-3-out-of-10-nigerian-men-are-not-biological-fathers-of-their-children/ )
If you believe that you may have a cheating spouse or are not quite sure, give us a call and talk to one of our private investigators. We will discuss the different options that we can offer, to help provide you the information needed to make an informed decision about your marriage. You deserve a peace of mind.
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